Balancing Online and Offline PSHE lesson
A primary PSHE lesson for Years 5 and 6 that helps UK teachers introduce healthy digital habits through a structured, ready-to-teach lesson. Pupils learn to think about how they balance time on screens with time for friends, family and outside activities, and practise simple strategies for keeping this balance in everyday life. The lesson gives teachers a calm, practical way to open up conversation about digital choices, without framing technology as something to fear.
Online Safety, AI & Digital Literacy
Snapshot
Balancing Online and Offline
The lesson gives teachers a structured way to introduce healthy digital habits and encourage balanced daily routines. Feedback: 4.4/5 average rating from 87 teacher and pupil responses
Prep time:
5 to 10 minutes
Lesson length:
45 to 50 minutes
Key Focus
Balancing screen time with friends, family and outside activities
Lesson Format
Teacher-led discussion and structured activities
What pupils will learn
By the end of the lesson, students will be supported to:
Recognise
recognise how much time they spend on screens compared with other activities
recognise the value of spending time with friends, family and outside play
recognise signs that screen time may be taking over other parts of the day
Understand
understand why a balance between online and offline activities supports wellbeing
understand that healthy habits include movement, sleep, friendships and time outdoors as well as sensible screen use
Practise
practise setting simple personal goals for balancing screen time with other activities
practise identifying offline activities they enjoy and want to spend more time on
practise talking about screen habits in a calm, non judgemental way
Who this lesson is for?
This lesson is designed for pupils in Years 5 and 6 who are becoming more independent in how they use screens and devices, both at school and at home.
It is suitable for:
primary PSHE lessons
wellbeing or relationships education sessions
pastoral care, circle time or form time
digital literacy or online safety units
healthy lifestyle or personal development work
Suitability should be based on more than age alone. Teachers should consider the lesson focus, pupil maturity, cohort needs, classroom culture, existing discussion norms and available support pathways.
Best used when
Use this lesson when students need clear, practical language for recognising unkind behaviour and knowing what to do next.
Introducing digital wellbeing Use when pupils are starting to think about how screen time fits alongside other parts of daily life.
Reinforcing healthy routines Use when revisiting expectations around sleep, movement, friendships and screen use.
Supporting a digital literacy unit Use alongside broader online safety or digital literacy learning to add a wellbeing focus.
Practising self reflection skills Use when pupils are ready to think critically about their own habits rather than simply being told what to do.
Preparing for increased device use Use as pupils move towards years with greater independence and access to personal devices.
Creating a structured PSHE discussion Use when you want a calm, teacher led discussion about balance, choices and everyday wellbeing.
The lesson can be used proactively with the whole class. It does not need to follow a specific incident.
Why this lesson matters
Pupils are spending more of their day around screens, and many are still working out how to balance this with friendships, family time and outside activities. Balancing online and offline time is not only about limiting screens. It is also about helping pupils notice how different activities make them feel, and giving them language to make thoughtful choices about their own time. This lesson supports a practical, everyday skill that pupils can carry into secondary school and beyond, without framing technology itself as something to be afraid of.
How this lesson supports wellbeing
This lesson supports student wellbeing by building practical social and emotional skills students can use in everyday school life. It helps students develop:
Capability How the lesson supports it
Self awareness Pupils notice how much time they spend on screens compared with other activities.
Self regulation Pupils consider simple ways to manage their own screen time and daily choices.
Critical thinking Pupils think through the benefits and drawbacks of different ways of spending time.
Social connection Pupils reflect on the value of time spent with friends and family in person.
Healthy habits Pupils connect screen use with wider habits such as movement, sleep and time outdoors.
Decision making Pupils practise setting simple, realistic goals for balancing their time.
For teachers and school leaders, the lesson contributes to broader wellbeing, respectful relationships, child safety and pastoral care goals in Australian primary schools.
Teaching notes & Delivery Considerations
This lesson includes content about unkind behaviour, exclusion and asking adults for help. It should be taught with calm, clear discussion norms.

Before teaching
Remind pupils not to describe or judge other pupils' or families' screen time habits
Frame discussion around general examples rather than personal disclosures
Make clear that the lesson is about building healthy habits, not comparing families
Be prepared to follow your school's safeguarding procedures and speak with the designated safeguarding lead if a pupil discloses harm or says they feel unsafe

During delivery
Use general examples such as choosing between screen time and outside play
Give pupils time to reflect individually before sharing as a group
Keep the tone balanced, screens are not framed as good or bad, but as one part of a healthy routine
Allow pupils to respond through discussion, writing or partner talk depending on confidence

Supporting safe discussion
Encourage privacy when pupils discuss their own habits or family routines
Avoid naming classmates or specific apps and platforms
Reinforce that pupils can speak to a trusted adult if they want support managing screen time or feel worried about something they have seen online

Adaptation options
Use partner discussion for quieter groups
Use written reflection for pupils who prefer not to share aloud
Spend more time on offline activity ideas for pupils who find this harder to identify

