No, Go, Tell! wellbeing lesson plan

No, Go, Tell! is a ready-to-teach wellbeing lesson for Foundation Year that helps Australian teachers introduce simple, practical steps for staying safe when something feels wrong. Students learn a straightforward response, saying no, moving away and telling a trusted adult, when they feel unsafe, uncomfortable or unsure. The lesson gives teachers a structured way to talk about personal safety, privacy and boundaries using calm, age appropriate language, without needing specialist training in child protection or first aid.

Keeping Safe & First Aid

Snapshot

No, Go, Tell!

This lesson gives teachers a structured way to introduce the No, Go, Tell steps using simple, repeatable language Foundation students can practise.

Prep time:

5 to 10 minutes

Lesson length:

45 to 50 minutes

Key Focus

Recognising unsafe situations and practising safe help-seeking steps

Lesson Format

Teacher-led discussion and structured activities

What students will learn

By the end of the lesson, students will be supported to:

Recognise

  • Recognise the difference between a safe feeling and an unsafe or uncomfortable feeling

  • Recognise situations where someone is not respecting their body, privacy or personal space

  • Recognise a trusted adult they can go to at school and at home

Understand

  • Understand that they have the right to say no if something feels wrong

  • Understand that telling a trusted adult is a safe and responsible choice, not a bad one

Practise

  • Practise saying no clearly in a simple, age appropriate scenario

  • Practise moving away from an unsafe or uncomfortable situation

  • Practise the words they would use to tell a trusted adult what happened

Who this lesson is for?

This lesson is designed for Foundation Year students who are beginning to learn early personal safety language, including how to recognise unsafe feelings and ask for help. It does not assume prior teaching on protective behaviours or personal safety.

It is suitable for:

  • Foundation Year wellbeing lessons

  • Health or PDHPE teaching

  • pastoral care or circle time sessions

  • protective behaviours or personal safety programs

  • early respectful relationships and boundaries work

Suitability should be based on more than age alone. Teachers should consider the lesson focus, student maturity, cohort needs, classroom culture, existing discussion norms and available support pathways.

Best used when

Use this lesson when students need clear, practical language for recognising unkind behaviour and knowing what to do next.

  • Introducing personal safety Use when students are learning early protective behaviours language for the first time.

  • Building classroom culture Use when reinforcing that bodies, privacy and personal space deserve respect.

  • Practising safe responses Use when students need to rehearse saying no, moving away and telling an adult in a low pressure setting.

  • Supporting help-seeking Use when students need to understand which adults at school and at home they can go to for help.

  • Reinforcing boundaries and consent Use alongside broader teaching on privacy, consent and personal boundaries.

  • Preparing for transition Use when students are moving into new settings, such as starting school, and need clear safety language.

The lesson can be used proactively with the whole class. It does not need to follow a specific incident.

Why this lesson matters

Young students need simple, repeatable language for recognising unsafe moments and knowing how to ask for help, before they are ever faced with a situation that feels wrong. Personal safety is easier to teach and remember when it is broken into small, practical steps rather than abstract warnings. No, Go, Tell! supports this by giving Foundation students a clear response they can practise in a calm classroom setting. Rather than focusing on what might go wrong, the lesson builds confidence in what to do, saying no, moving away and telling a trusted adult. This proactive approach helps normalise conversations about privacy, consent and boundaries early, so students have the words ready if they ever need them.

How this lesson supports wellbeing

This lesson supports student wellbeing by building practical social and emotional skills students can use in everyday school life. It helps students develop:

  • Capability How the lesson supports it

  • Personal safety awareness Students learn to notice the difference between a safe feeling and an unsafe one.

  • Boundary setting Students practise saying no when something does not feel right.

  • Help-seeking Students identify a trusted adult and practise the words to tell them.

  • Communication confidence Students say the No, Go, Tell steps aloud in a supported setting.

  • Protective behaviours Students learn a simple, repeatable response to unsafe situations.

  • Trust in safe adults Students reinforce that telling an adult is a responsible, safe choice.

For teachers and school leaders, the lesson contributes to broader wellbeing, respectful relationships, child safety and pastoral care goals in Australian primary schools.

Curriculum and framework alignment

Teaching notes & Delivery Considerations

This lesson includes content about unkind behaviour, exclusion and asking adults for help. It should be taught with calm, clear discussion norms.

Before teaching

  • Remind students not to name classmates or share stories about other people

  • Frame the discussion around general scenarios rather than personal disclosures

  • Identify the trusted adults students can go to at school before the lesson

  • Be prepared to follow your school's child safety, wellbeing or child protection procedures if a student discloses harm or says they feel unsafe

During delivery

  • Use simple, concrete examples such as someone touching without asking or being asked to keep an uncomfortable secret

  • Give students time to practise saying no and the words they would use to tell an adult

  • Keep the tone calm and reassuring rather than cautionary

  • Allow students to respond through discussion, drawing or guided role-play depending on confidence

Supporting safe discussion

  • Reinforce that telling a trusted adult is always the right choice

  • Avoid asking students to share personal experiences in front of the class

  • Use general examples rather than real names or situations from the cohort

Adaptation options

  • Use guided role-play for confident groups

  • Use drawing or partner talk for quieter groups

  • Spend extra time identifying trusted adults if students need more support

Keep the message simple throughout: if something feels wrong, students can say no, get away and tell a trusted adult straight away.