When Something Doesn't Feel Right wellbeing lesson plan

A primary wellbeing lesson for Foundation students that helps Australian teachers introduce what to do when something feels unsafe, through a structured, ready-to-teach lesson. Students learn to recognise signs that a situation may not feel right, understand simple steps to stay safe in different environments, and practise calling for help from a trusted adult.

Keeping Safe & First Aid

Snapshot

When Something Doesn't Feel Right

The lesson gives teachers a structured way to introduce early safety awareness and help-seeking skills.

Prep time:

5 to 10 minutes

Lesson length:

45 to 50 minutes

Key Focus

Recognising unsafe situations and knowing simple steps to get help

Lesson Format

Teacher-led discussion and structured activities

What students will learn

By the end of the lesson, students will be supported to:

Recognise

  • recognise physical or emotional signs that a situation may not feel safe

  • identify examples of unsafe situations across different environments, such as home, school or public places

  • recognise that feeling unsafe is a signal worth acting on, even without knowing exactly why

Understand

  • understand that safety can look different depending on the environment

  • understand that asking for help is a safe and responsible choice, not a last resort

Practise

  • practise simple steps to take when something doesn't feel right, such as staying calm and moving to a safer place

  • practise identifying a trusted adult to ask for help

  • practise using simple words to explain that something feels wrong

Who this lesson is for?

This lesson is designed for Foundation students who are beginning to build early safety awareness and simple help-seeking skills. It suits students who are learning to notice their feelings and connect them to simple, practical actions, with teacher guidance throughout.

It is suitable for:

  • primary wellbeing lessons

  • Health or PDHPE teaching

  • pastoral care or protective behaviours programs

  • early child safety education

  • circle time or classroom discussion routines

Suitability should be based on more than age alone. Teachers should consider the lesson focus, student maturity, cohort needs, classroom culture, existing discussion norms and available support pathways.

Best used when

Use this lesson when students need clear, practical language for recognising unkind behaviour and knowing what to do next.

  • Introducing early safety awareness Use when students are learning foundational language for feeling safe and unsafe.

  • Building classroom safety routines Use when establishing expectations for what to do if something feels wrong at school.

  • Supporting protective behaviours learning Use when reinforcing broader child safety or protective behaviours work already happening in class.

  • Practising help-seeking skills Use when students need practice identifying trusted adults and asking for help confidently.

  • Preparing for new or unfamiliar environments Use when students are transitioning to new settings, such as excursions or changes in routine.

  • Creating a structured safety discussion Use when you want a calm, teacher-led discussion about staying safe in different environments.

The lesson can be used proactively with the whole class. It does not need to follow a specific incident.

Why this lesson matters

Young students benefit from simple, repeatable language for noticing when something feels unsafe and knowing what to do next. Early safety skills are easier to build before students face situations that require them. This lesson supports a proactive approach to safety by helping students understand that feelings of discomfort or worry can be a useful signal, not something to ignore or manage alone. By practising simple steps such as staying calm, moving to a safer place and finding a trusted adult, students build confidence in knowing what to do, rather than only being told to be careful.

How this lesson supports wellbeing

This lesson supports student wellbeing by building practical social and emotional skills students can use in everyday school life. It helps students develop:

  • Capability How the lesson supports it

  • Self awareness Students notice physical or emotional signs that something feels unsafe.

  • Risk recognition Students identify examples of unsafe situations across different everyday environments.

  • Help-seeking Students learn simple steps to find and ask a trusted adult for support.

  • Protective behaviours Students practise language and actions that support their own safety.

  • Confidence Students build assurance in acting on their instincts rather than staying silent.

  • Calm decision making Students practise staying calm and choosing a safer response.

For teachers and school leaders, the lesson contributes to broader wellbeing, respectful relationships, child safety and pastoral care goals in Australian primary schools.

Curriculum and framework alignment

Teaching notes & Delivery Considerations

This lesson includes content about unkind behaviour, exclusion and asking adults for help. It should be taught with calm, clear discussion norms.

Before teaching

  • Remind students not to name classmates or share personal stories about specific people

  • Frame the discussion around general examples and scenarios, not personal disclosures

  • Identify the trusted adults students can go to at school

  • Be prepared to follow your school's child safety, wellbeing or child protection procedures if a student discloses harm or says they feel unsafe.

During delivery

  • Use simple, everyday examples of environments such as home, school and public places

  • Give students time to practise simple phrases and steps aloud

  • Reinforce that noticing something feels wrong is enough reason to ask for help

  • Keep language calm and reassuring rather than alarming

Supporting safe discussion

  • Use general scenarios rather than personal experiences

  • Reinforce that asking for help is a safe, responsible choice

  • Follow school child safety procedures if concerns arise during or after the lesson

Adaptation options

  • Use drawing or matching activities for students who are still developing verbal responses

  • Spend more time identifying trusted adults if students need extra support

  • Revisit the lesson in short, repeated sessions to build familiarity with safety language

Some students may connect the discussion to a real situation. Respond calmly and follow your school's usual support procedures.